General Rules of the Domestic Violence Shelter

1. Safety and Confidentiality

    •    Safety is a priority: The shelter is a confidential space. Do not share the location of the shelter with anyone, including family, friends, or acquaintances.

    •    Emergency procedures: Follow all emergency protocols (e.g., fire drills, evacuation procedures). In case of immediate danger, notify staff immediately.

    •    No violence or threats: Any form of physical, verbal, or emotional abuse toward others will not be tolerated and may result in immediate removal from the shelter.

2. Respect and Dignity

    •    Treat others with respect: All residents, staff, and volunteers should be treated with dignity and respect at all times.

    •    Privacy: Respect the privacy of others. Do not ask personal questions or share information about other residents outside the shelter.

    •    Quiet hours: Maintain quiet hours from [specific times, e.g., 10:00 PM to 6:00 AM]. Be mindful of noise levels during these times.

3. Participation in Shelter Programs

    •    Engagement in services: Residents are encouraged to participate in counseling sessions, support groups, and other programs provided by the shelter.

    •    House meetings: Attend regular house meetings to stay informed about shelter updates, rules, and opportunities for personal growth.

    •    Case management: Work with assigned case managers to develop an individual safety and transition plan.

4. Substance Use and Prohibited Items

    •    No drugs or alcohol: The shelter is a substance-free environment. Possession, use, or distribution of drugs or alcohol is strictly prohibited.

    •    Weapons ban: No weapons of any kind (including firearms, knives, or any dangerous items) are allowed in the shelter.

    •    Search policy: The shelter reserves the right to conduct searches of personal belongings or rooms if there are safety concerns.

5. Personal Responsibilities

    •    Cleanliness: Each resident is responsible for keeping their personal space clean and assisting with common area chores.

    •    Meal preparation: Residents may be assigned responsibilities for preparing meals or helping with kitchen duties on a rotational basis.

    •    Laundry: Use laundry facilities as scheduled and follow posted rules regarding machine usage.

6. Children

    •    Parental responsibility: Parents or guardians are responsible for the supervision, care, and behavior of their children at all times.

    •    Respecting space: Ensure that children play in designated areas and respect other residents’ spaces and belongings.

7. Visitors

    •    No visitors allowed: For safety reasons, visitors (including family and friends) are not allowed at the shelter unless explicitly approved by the shelter management.

    •    Offsite meetings: If necessary, meetings with friends, family, or professionals should take place outside the shelter premises.

8. Curfew and Time Away

    •    Curfew: Residents must return to the shelter by [specific time, e.g., 9:00 PM] unless prior arrangements are made with staff.

    •    Overnight absence: Inform shelter staff if you plan to be away overnight. Extended absences without notice may result in loss of your shelter bed.

9. Medical Care

    •    Medical needs: Inform staff if you have any ongoing medical conditions or need assistance accessing healthcare services.

    •    Medication storage: All medications must be stored securely as directed by staff.

10. Compliance and Consequences

    •    Compliance with rules: All residents are required to follow shelter rules and policies. If a rule is unclear, ask staff for clarification.

    •    Disciplinary action: Non-compliance may result in warnings, loss of privileges, or in extreme cases, removal from the shelter.

Shelter Contact Information

For any questions, concerns, or emergencies, contact shelter staff. 

These rules are essential for maintaining a safe and supportive environment for all residents. It’s important to review them regularly with staff and residents, and ensure they are clear and accessible to everyone.